Dovida's dementia care tips with 2,450 Donegal families caring for loved ones

September is World Alzheimer’s Month, a time dedicated to raising awareness and understanding about Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia.

In Donegal alone, an estimated 2,451 people and their families are directly affected by the condition.

Healthcare experts say open dialogue is vital to breaking down the stigma surrounding dementia and empowering families to feel supported when caring for a loved one.

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As an organisation that supports hundreds of people across Ireland, dementia care provider Dovida has shared practical advice to help families navigate what can often be a challenging journey.

“When a parent, partner, or loved one is diagnosed with dementia, it can feel like everything changes,” said Danette Connolly, Director of Clinical Governance at Dovida. “Routines, relationships, and responsibilities can be thrown into flux, and for many families, it’s hard to know what to do.”

Connolly explained that the most important principles for families are to establish a consistent routine, use simple and calm communication techniques, and support independence where possible. Predictability helps to reduce confusion and anxiety, speaking slowly and validating feelings can ease stress, and encouraging a loved one to participate in small tasks helps maintain dignity and confidence.

One of the most difficult challenges families face is when a loved one refuses care. “Refusing care often comes from fear, confusion, or a loss of control, but there are strategies that can help,” Connolly said. These include using a gentle approach, introducing caregivers gradually, trying a different caregiver if necessary, and reframing tasks in a more positive way. “It’s important to remember that you’re not doing anything wrong,” she added. “Refusing care is a common issue, but it’s manageable with the right tools and support.”

Dovida also stresses the importance of respite for caregivers. “Everyone needs a break, especially family caregivers,” Connolly noted. “Having time to recharge improves the quality of life for both the caregiver and the person living with dementia.” Options for respite include in-home support, day programmes, and short-term residential stays, depending on what is available locally.

“Caring for a loved one with dementia can be both difficult and rewarding,” Connolly concluded. “It’s important not to wait too long to seek help if it becomes overwhelming. Early support is key to protecting the caregiver’s wellbeing while allowing their loved one to live as well as possible, ideally in the comfort of their own home.”